Mar
6th

What to do if my baby is choking?

There are many reasons why babies choke. For the most part, it has to do with their small bodies and lack of practice. Babies are most likely to choke when he or she is starting solids. Because the pureed food does not go down as easily as the milk or formula they are used to, it is easy for the food to get stuck in the back of their throats. Most breastfeeding mommies face the same problem when their baby chokes while breastfeeding.

Do you know what to do if your baby choking on milk or choking while feeding? Especially first time mommies do not know how to handle their newborn baby when they choke and you will scream for help “MY BABY IS CHOKING!”

If you’re at home alone, and there is no time to rush to the hospital. Your baby needs help immediately and what can you do?

The first thing to do is to not panic. Keep cool, and assess the situation. If the choking baby can still cry, then he or she is still breathing.

Then you can try:

  1. Hold your baby so that he is lying face down along your forearm with his head lower than his body and his back and head supported.
  2. Use the heel of your hand to give up to five back blows.
  3. Check your baby’s mouth and remove any obvious obstructions. Do not use your finger to sweep inside his mouth - this could push the obstruction further into his throat.
  4. If your baby is still unable to breathe, turn him onto his back and give up to five chest thrust.
  5. Use two fingertips to push inwards and upwards (towards his head) against his breastbone, one finger’s width below his nipple line.
  6. Try to dislodge the object with each thrust. Don’t automatically do all five.
  7. Check your baby’s mouth after each thrust and remove the obstruction.

If the obstruction does not clear after three cycles of back blows and chest thrusts, dial 999 (or if you have direct emergency number) for an ambulance and continue giving your baby back blows and chest thrusts until help arrives. If the child loses consciousness, begin cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) while waiting for emergency crews to arrive.

We will further discuss on how to carry out CPR on your little baby in future post.

If you are still not clear about how to handle choking baby, you can have a look at below video. It shows clearly on how to dislodge the blockage of your baby.

Mar
5th

BirthConfidence Audio CDs by Dr Selina Chew

Dr. Selina Chew is going to conduct a BirthConfidence™ Workshop on March 15th. I’ve talked about this workshop last month. Please click here to find out more.

Today, I would like to introduce you to the BirthConfidence™ Audio CDs created by Dr. Selina Chew.


Birth Preparation and Rehearsal CD

Using the Law of Attraction for a Calm, Confident and Comfortable Birth

Benefits:

  • Stress and fear release
  • Maintain deep relaxation during labour
  • Feel prepared and ready for childbirth
  • Decrease / eliminate chemical painkillers in labour
  • Develop a deep trust in your body’s ability to give birth naturally
  • Higher likelihood of a calm, confident and comfortable childbirth

This audio comprises the following tracks:

Track 1: Birth Preparation and Rehearsal
Track 2: Affirmations for a Wonderful Pregnancy and Confident Birthing
Track 3: Relaxation and Birthing Music with subliminal Birth Affirmations (with special music and ocean waves)

Length of program: 66 minutes
Price: RM60.00

To purchase, visit:

http://www.life-inspirations.com/birthconfidence-audio-programs.htm


Pre-birth Communication & Bonding With Baby CD

For a Better Pregnancy and Happier Baby

Benefits

  • Enhance the intuitive connection between you and your baby
  • Increase communication and bonding with your baby
  • Transmit positive thoughts and love to your baby
  • Removing fears regarding your pregnancy and childbirth
  • Higher likelihood of a calm, happier and healthier baby

This audio comprises the following tracks on guided visualization (with special music and nature sounds)

  1. Relaxation Exercise
  2. Relaxing in Nature
  3. Grounding Exercise
  4. White Light Protection
  5. Cleansing Waterfall
  6. Healing Pool
  7. Healing Garden
  8. Meeting Your Baby
  9. Communicating with Your Baby
  10. Pregnancy Affirmations
  11. Pregnancy Relaxation Nature Sounds (with Subliminal Affirmations)

Length of program: 62 minutes
Price: RM60.00

To purchase, visit:

http://www.life-inspirations.com/birthconfidence-audio-programs.htm

Mar
4th

Breastfeeding Tips for Working Moms

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Go Back to Work and Continue to Breastfeed?  Yes, You Can!

Going back to work after having a baby can be challenging!  If you are planning to breastfeed, you may also be worried about how you will find time to pump at work so that your baby can have your milk for the next day of childcare. But don’t worry. With some advance planning, it is possible to combine work and breastfeeding successfully.

How will you combine breastfeeding and working?

1. Get Support From Co-workers and Your Boss

It is important to let your co-workers know that you plan on pumping breast milk when you return to work after your baby is born. This will help your coworkers to understand why you are taking frequent breaks during the work day. Before each pumping session let someone know where you will be going so no one will come looking for you while you are pumping. The best way to prevent someone walking in on you while you are pumping is to make it clear where you are and what you are doing. If you are still nervous about having someone walk in on you while you are pumping you can put a discreet note on the door letting your coworkers know that you are taking a break inside. Besides, you can explain to them that breastfeeding benefits everybody. Breastfeeding makes baby healthier & it lowers healthcare costs for everyone which you doesn’t have to apply leave. It benefits your boss and it’s good for co-workers because someone doesn’t have to cover for you.

2. Keep Up Milk Production

Start “stockpiling” milk by expressing and storing it about two weeks before going back to work. According to the Human Milk Bank of America, milk will stay good in the refrigerator for up to eight days, in a refrigerator freezer compartment up to six months and in a separate, deep freezer for up to one year.

3. Choosing a Hospital Grade Electric Pump

The first thing you have to do if you want to successfully provide your newborn with pumped breast milk while you are at work is to rent or buy a hospital grade electric breast pump. Hand pumps will not allow you to express the amount of milk you need to keep up your milk supply and will quickly tire your hands. Hospital grade pumps are expensive but when you consider the high cost of infant formula it is far cheaper in the long run. A hospital grade pump will help you to keep up your milk supply while you are working and will help to quickly empty your breast, making overall pumping sessions shorter.

4. Figure Out Where and When to Pump

When and where you pump depends largely on your work setup. If you have a private office, you can simply close the door to pump. This is the easiest scenario for fitting in three or four sessions in a day. In Malaysia, there is hardly to have a lactation room in the office. When you plan on pumping, make sure that it is a private area, preferably with a locking door, and is conveniently located for frequent pumping sessions. It is important that you feel comfortable with the location that you have chosen. Don’t nurse in a bathroom – you wouldn’t want to eat your lunch there and it’s not a sanitary place to make baby food.

5. Storing The Milk

Bottles or containers are needed to store the breast milk in at work. After you’ve finished pumping, put the milk in the tightly closed containers and store in the refrigerator. You can also put the milk in the freezer or in a cooler if a refrigerator/freezer isn’t available at your workplace. Breast milk will not spoil immediately. There are all sorts of white cells in the human breast milk that keep the bacteria from growing. If you will be transporting it within a couple hours, it is all right to keep it in a cool place until it is time to take it home or to your baby. Some women put their milk in the freezer at work so it is partially frozen by the end of the day–then there is no need to chill it additionally on the ride home and it can go into the refrigerator when they get to the house. Or some mothers prefer to use a cooler or an insulated bag to transport the milk from work to home.

If the idea of pumping at work doesn’t appeal to you, many experts recommend creative solutions for keeping your baby breastfed longer, such as having your baby brought to work on your lunch break, or combining formula and breastfeeding.

Are you a breastfeeding working mom? What’s your experience? Let’s share it here!

Mar
3rd

Malay, Chinese & Indian Confinement Practices

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I’m a Chinese and I know a little about Chinese confinement practices but not aware of how the Malay & Indian practice them. I found an interesting article from The-Star online that talks about how the Malay, Chinese & Indian practice confinement care. Just thought I should share with you:

In Malaysia, the three major ethnic groups each have their own confinement practices, sharing some similar principles and elements.

How the Chinese do it

The Chinese refer to confinement as “zhuo yue”, which is literally translated into “sitting still for a month”.

“Your body’s hormones need time to recover. This recovery period is from 30-45 days,” says Pei Ling, founder of a post-natal care services and consultancy company.

The predominant belief is that if confinement is not carried out in the proper way, the woman’s uterus will not be able to contract and this will result in “drooping womb” or uterine prolapse.

One of the other main principles of confinement is preventing “wind” from entering the body, which is said to be the cause of joint problems in later years. Hence, the notoriously peculiar custom of not allowing the women to bathe or wash their hair.

Chinese confinement dietary recommendations are mostly aimed at warming the body, improving blood circulation, “expelling” toxins from the blood and promoting contraction of the uterus.

Women are encouraged to eat liver and kidney cooked in old ginger, sesame oil or rice wine. Herbal soups and tonics are also a main part of the diet, as they rejuvenate the body.


Herbs are an important component of confinement care in Chinese, Malay and Indian cultures, although there is little scientific basis to explain how or why the herbs work.

Herbs are an important component of confinement care in Chinese, Malay and Indian cultures, although there is little scientific basis to explain how or why the herbs work.

Taboos:

  • Cannot wash hair for 21 days or bathe for 12 days.
  • Cannot be directly exposed to wind (hot, for example, hairdryer; or cold, for example, air-conditioning).
  • Can only watch TV or read for 15 minutes at a time, so that the eyes are well-rested.
  • Cannot cry.
  • Cannot carry heavy objects (including the baby), over-exert self or walk up and down the stairs.
  • Cannot drink water for the first 20 days, only rice wine (with the alcohol “steamed” away).

How the Malays do it

In the Malay community, confinement or “dalam pantang” is considered an important period that allows the body to heal after pregnancy.

“In the old days, confinement had to be done for 44 days. Now, at least 20 days is considered sufficient,” says a Malay confinement nanny known to her customers as Auntie Yogi.

“We believe that when you give birth, your nerves open up. We want to shrink them, to prevent pain or illness,” she says.

Malay confinement practices revolve around several elements: the massage to improve blood circulation, hot stone (tuku), wrap (barut), herbal baths and medicinal tonics (air akar kayu).

The tuku is a hot stone or a ball-like metal object with a handle. After it has been heated, it is wrapped in a cloth and daun mengkudu (noni leaf), and gently rolled over parts of the body that are “linked” to the uterus, including the abdomen.

For most women, barut is the most crucial part of confinement. It is a wrap, made up of a mixture of herbs, wound tightly around the woman’s waist to help her regain her slim figure as soon as possible.

Like the Chinese, Malays believe strongly in keeping the body warm and preventing “wind” from entering. A regular practice is to consume herbal drinks, using certain herbs that are “heaty”, such as “halia bara”.

Older practices to keep the body warm include the “mendian” and “salai”, where the woman sits or lies above a fire.

Taboos:

  • Avoid knocking your toe, because it will affect your uterus (said to be connected to the feet).
  • Avoid squatting, because your uterus will descend.
  • Cannot eat anything “cold”, like melon, eggplant, spinach.
  • Cannot eat anything “windy”, like jack fruit.
  • Cannot drink cold water or eat oily foods, as they are bad for blood circulation and cause muscle aches and pains.
  • Cannot leave the bed, move about or leave the house.
  • Cannot read or watch TV as it strains the eyes.

How the Indians do it

Indian confinement amah Mrs Siva believes that proper confinement practices can help to prevent health problems in the years to come.

“If a woman does not do confinement, she will experience problems like back or knee pain … not immediately, but later in life,” she warns.

Indian confinement practices, like in other cultures, revolve around ensuring that the uterus shrinks back to its normal size and that the internal “wounds” heal properly.

Herbal baths, using different kinds of leaves, are taken to improve blood circulation and reduce fatigue.

“We also use omam, which is a kind of spice that is rubbed all over the body to purify and soften the skin, as well as ‘release pain’,” says Mrs Siva.

The dietary recommendations are mostly aimed at improving the production of breast milk. Green leafy vegetables, shark’s meat, garlic, black dhal pudding and boiled fenugreek seeds (halba) are among the foods believed to help produce a lot of good milk.

The Indians also have their own form of massage and herbal wraps, which are believed to help the mother regain her figure. A unique aspect of post-natal care, which is not part of the mother’s confinement, but included in the services of some confinement amahs, is the baby massage. It is believed that using olive oil for the massage will improve the colour and texture of the baby’s skin.

Another practice is to bathe the newborn baby in cooked rice water (kanji) to strengthen the baby’s bones and improve his/her health.

Taboos:

  • Cannot eat seafood if the mother is breastfeeding, as it will cause vomiting and rashes in the baby.
  • Cannot eat “windy” vegetables and fruits, like cabbage, eggplant or grapes.
  • Cannot drink water.

Source: The Star Online

Mar
2nd

Video: How to bottle feed my baby?

Breast milk is best for babies. However, if bottle feeding, make sure you sterilize the bottle thoroughly. When bottle feeding, there are few things that you need to be aware, such as to make sure the milk flow is right. The following video shows you how to bottle feed a baby and some of the bottle feeding tips.

Video Content:

  • How to bottle feed my baby?
  • How to burp/wind my baby?
  • How to warm my breast milk?

Come back again for more bottle feeding tips and highlights on some of the bottle feeding problems.